Monday, April 7, 2025

A look back on my 30’s on my 40th birthday

  In my 30s I fell in love got married, bought a house, had two kids, lost two jobs, got worried about fascism twice, survived a global pandemic while being an “essential worker” but not one of the heroes.  I bared witness to celebrity death.  I became dependent on a smart phone.  I filmed myself reciting the tomorrow speech from that Scottish play several times, and never shared it with anyone.  I watched a beloved dog shuffle off this mortal coil.  I got the hiccups… with gusto.  I wrote a few poems.  One was about horses, another was about Elon Musk.  I played it safe.  I was reckless.  Bottled up any negative emotion so that no one would see, because showing that is weakness.  I lashed out, screamed, yelled and cried.  Apologized daily.  

   When I was about my son’s age I created a book for a project.  The book was called “Joe’s book of Knowledge”.  The tagline was “with Joe’s book of knowledge I went from kindergarten straight to college”.  This was pre-internet.  Wait did I invent the internet?   Anyway my son Isaac had to come up with a project over spring break, they were supposed to come up with a Good or Service.  Isaac came up with a time traveling service, in his words, “so people can go back and fix things if they need to”. 

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